We would like the au pair to be home by midnight during the week. However, if there is something special that will keep her out later, we would just like to know. On the weekends the time that the aupair arrives home is not important. We would just like to be informed of what time she plans on arriving home, so we don't worry. Eating-We don't eat meals in the bedroom. We are ok with the aupair eating a snack in her room. We don't allow shoes on in the house.