Hang out with people who help you feel great.
As a coach for women, I've come across many clients who often find themselves in environments or social networks that are very constricting. Who to date, what to wear, and how to spend your weekends is often silently defined within very narrow limits. In essence, there is only one way to do things right and a million ways to mis-step and do things "wrong." Yikes.
This kind of environment fosters the opposite of freedom, individuality, and uniqueness, which is what will make attract the kind of love that's actually fulfilling to you. Make sure your environment is one that encourages individual freedom and creative expression of who you are.