I want to use an example: If someone asked you this question:
"Tangmo. How did you get such handsome and sweet boyfriend?". What would be your answer?
If they asked you "How did you get him?". What would be your answer?
The only way to find and keep a handsome and super sweet boyfriend is to spend a lot of time in him and with him. righ
My point is that, if you put a lot of efforts into something is usually gives a better result