Some of you ladies need to relax a little.........no man worth your time is going to be "serious" from the start......anyone that falls in love with you that fast will fall out of love just as fast or as soon as the next one comes along. People need to know each other well before becoming serious. Think of it like real life. You would be "serious" about a man you met on the beach 5 minutes ago would you? Just relax and enjoy meeting people.