Being a good listener is Listening carefully and paying attention to what the speaker is saying. Do not do other unrelated activities. Participate in listening, such as making eye contact with the speaker and asking questions. When we are good listeners, it will help promote the speaker to be more confident. and must be careful in using words or writing in a polite and friendly manner especially written communication Because the letters have no sound. Using blunt messages may cause dissatisfaction between each other.