RJ so in this video we're gonna be talking about the process
I've socialization how someone adopts the values the norms the expected behaviors
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I'm excited let's get started I do need to let you know there are a lot of terms now in this particular video and these are important to know because we're gonna be seeing them on somebody assessment amber and also be addressing them and the rest the content for this video soon got aged socialization role taking I am looking glass elfin me socialization which is again the process that humans acquire a sense of self who they are and I'd any in their society and eighty socialization including mass medium peer group and the social structures the system that we all live in that keeps us going with the flow and conforming to what society wants us to be man alright now we're done with the terms let's get to the contact so personally really talk about it what is socialization that's the tough for our unit what the heck is it's the basic process that we learn the skills the values beliefs and patterns up siding what kinda would be normally eat the political system that we have how we treat one another the respect that we gifted people different genders were different ages om the values towards others that we have believes that we have all come from socialization you're not born with it you learn it throughout your life and a lot of times you don't even know that you're learning that's the thing about socialization the whole goal is to me more news deciding mold you into something that will be successful in that aside now the good thing is that this develops a sense upsell because a different agents of socialization things that mold us we figure out we are now a lot of times you wanna say alignment individual I'm unique I know who I am in no one's ever implants me to be something else well unfortunately that's not just not true so there's a lot of tears on how we're socialized how we become the people that we are why do you like music we like why we read the books have you read while you watch the shows that we watch and their three main series the first is the tabular Rossa theory which basically said that we're all blank slates that we have no personalities where were born and we can just be molded into any individual others issue with that because we are genetically did predisposed to have certain personality types as we talked about our last video to this isn't completely true but it is does have some truth that a lot I'm were blank slate the kids art essentially mourns socialize that kids are learnt I learned to be socialize in that society second theory is the looking glass cell and looking glass self basically says that the people that we be calm our result I V interactions we have with other people so the more people were around the more we will try to be like those people the more we will adopt the treats and the likes and dislikes the believes the guys have those people when you're a kid that your family when your teenager that's your friends I know you like to think that you found that indie-folk band all by yourself but no you didn't someone either show you a website that that music happen to be on or you are friends with someone who like that music we all have that happen to us you are not unique I'm sorry now the thing about looking glass of three is this is a continual like process we're always redefining who we are self image based on the interaction that we have the person that you are today will not be the person you were 10 years ago because you will have different people in your life know what influence your sense of self now the third theory is called a role taking theory which basically says we take on the roles we want we expect others that others expect this to happen so we'll talk in the row love okay I'm just be parents all get Mary I'll be a husband all have kids all have middle-class jobs out but a lot of times the people that we are are the people we want to be we just take on the roles that we think society want to stay happy contributing successful member subsys id: because if that we'll two-part ourselves in this theory even II which is basically the spontaneous I on socialize party that just does whatever you want that's usually vacation you and me which is the socialized you here's a great example you're going to route your friends and your acting crazy not to do whenever and certainly sealing a teacher or parent or someone you know it's on you get really polite and your entire body language changes that's a great example up the difference between hi and me sup we become socialize through various different factors there are different mean things that cause us to be who we are these are called agents of socialization things that socialize and therefore main agents your family especially when you