if you can get and borrow and pay for the lowest vacation when i come i will extend the vacation so we can have time to plan for our family i will see all your family plan for our marriage and go to see the new house before i will pay for the house and we will go and see the car too then jenny can come stay with you in thailand so definately if i come out now i will extend the vacation from 3 weeks to 24 weeks so we can have time to plan for our family my love what do you think?