Looking for a first mate...
A family is like a ship (Ark), and, IF it is going to float and not get wrecked, it has to have a captain (father - like in the British Royal Navy) and a good first-mate (wife), cook and crew, etc. Just like a good first-mate is invaluable to a captain, a good woman can help to make a good man, and a bad woman could break him (and vice-versa).