No I don't have a gf. Am asking because you dated someone for quite a while but weren't physical with them. I am the exact opposite.I enjoy the physical side of being in a relationship. For me there has to be physical touch also to make it work.There is definitely the emotional side that is needed, has to be a happy balance.Love comes later. At least from my own experience.If I was saving myself I would probably be in my 50's because I hadn't found the right person. I would have missed out on a lot.Yeah you are on your way! Unless you want my help.