Salamu alakum sister. I thought you would be better than this. I thought you were inclined for the akhira.
1: taking out loan is declaring war against allah. There are numerous hadiths on this. . I wanted to marry you for faith not for worldy possessions.
2: mahr is too large and is ridiculous as a request.
3. Im extremely disappointed in who you turned out to be. At the end of the day, it appears you want the luxuries of this life. Do not write back as i am closing this chapter of my life.
Assalamu alaikum and i wish you all the best.