With this in mind, it is not hard to see the importance developing a positive outlook and perception if one wants to groom their young for success. This kind of grooming can only happen from passive experiences and observations by the child of those closest to him or her therefore the value of the parents in this process is undeniable. Unfortunately, these days parents shift the responsibility of teaching their offspring to teachers in schools and universities, often blaming them when the child fails academically. However, as we have seen, a child’s success is not dependant on academic ability, but rather their outlook on life, and this can only be instilled through passive observation of the parents.