Sad story. He believed you were cheating, but you weren't?
I believed my wife wasn't cheating, but she took my daughter to meet her boyfriend, and despite asking my daughter not to tell, I found out. Very upsetting. Not hate her, but dissapointed and betrayed.
She lives elsewhere now. See's my daughter 2 or 4 days a week, but never calls her outside these times, or plays with her when she is with her. Not a good mother or loving person.