Scripture and culture both place a high value upon relationships and marriage but their standards for what is a meaningful and successful relationship vastly differs. Both claim to have the means by which that special someone can be found and they both offer advice on the qualities needed a suitable spouse. Both cannot be right because God’s ways are different than the ways of culture. It is important for the church to stop looking to the ways of men, and turn to the wisdom of the Bible for instructions as to what are qualities God values.