In real life. There are many issues that we would like to make other people feel we even if we would hope very much they will continue, but if they don't want it, it doesn't benefit, but is frustrated that, why wouldn't we, but disobedience to if the other view. If someone is forced; Order to do what we don't want to do. Although we were disappointed, but they would not be happy to follow the others. Not everyone likes to come to force, so we should not be forced to anyone although we are hoping as well.