_ I am so involved with my partner or parent(s)
that I do not really know who I am or what I
want.
113. _____ I have trouble separating my point of view or opinion from that of my parent(s) or partner.
114. _____ I often feel that I have no privacy when it comes to my parent(s) or partner.
115. _____ I feel that my parent(s) are, or would be, very hurt about my living on my own, away from
them.
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116. _____ I let other people have their way, because I fear the consequences.
117. _____ I believe that if I do what I want, I'm only asking for trouble.
118. _____ I feel that I have no choice but to give in to other people’s wishes, or else they will retaliate
or reject me in some way.
119. _____ In relationships, I let the other person have the upper hand.
120. _____ I've always let others make choices for me, so I really don't know what I want for myself.
121. _____ I feel the major decisions in my life were not really my own.
122. _____ I worry a lot about pleasing other people, so they won't reject me.
123. _____ I have a lot of trouble demanding that my rights be respected and that my feelings be taken
into account.
124. _____ I get back at people in little ways instead of showing my anger directly.
125. _____ I will go to much greater lengths than most people to avoid confrontations.
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126. _____ I put others' needs before my own, or else I feel guilty.
127. _____ I feel guilty when I let other people down or disappoint them.
128. _____ I give more to other people than I get back in return.
129. _____ I'm the one who usually ends up taking care of the people I'm close to.
130. _____ There is almost nothing I couldn't put up with if I loved someone.
131. _____ I am a good person because I think of others more than of myself.
132. _____ At work, I'm usually the one to volunteer to do extra tasks or to put in extra time.
133. _____ No matter how busy I am, I can always find time for others.
134. _____ I can get by on very little, because my needs are minimal.
135. _____ I'm only happy when those around me are happy.
136. _____ I'm so busy doing for the people that I care about that I have little time for myself.