Deborah Tannen's recent book, You Just Don't Understand , has become a best-seller in the United states. This book discusses the many difficulties men and women have in communicating with each other. Ms. Tannen believes that men and women have problems in conversing with each other because they are raised to see the world in different ways. Because men and women have such different life experiences, they don't speak the same language. Just like people from different cultures, men and women have problems with "cross-cultural communication".