Hey, just wanted to say a few words. This applies to your mother, do you think it is right to put all responsibility to others when it comes to her finances, now you have "cast" your son to her, as I have understood that you do not give her so much money to live with your son. She will now be responsible in getting money for their stay and to rent to her and your son. We have paid many thousand bath for them to get enough money to live. Is not it like that in Thailand it is the children who will be responsible for their parents when them grow old? Aunt Tuk is too snail, she said mostly yes. This has gone beyond your aunt's ability to do things here in Norway. Do you get to take care of your children yourself or you'll get things right so that your mother and your children do not get any problem with it economic. Now your mother has been hospitalized, she may not be so fresh that she manages to fit in your son, he becomes older and older and require more and more. Think you should take more responsibility when it is you who put him into the world. Hope you take to think about the situations, which are in nowadays, is also not good that a grandmother must raise a little boy.