This optimism on parents being reunited and will not forsake them may help adolescents cope with the effects of the divorce. Adolescents may feel jealous to see friends mingling with his parents who lived together as supported by Guidubaldi (1989) According Guidubaldi (1984), the data shows students whose parents were divorced were more dependent on the others, passive and not popular among their peers, have lower grades in school The blame game whereby adolescents blame their parents and selves show the natural defence mechanism in the midst of frustration in order to make sense of what is happening and to seek stability once more.