You actually only have to appeal to yourself now. Think of this sentence if you hear critical tones (Moon in Virgo) at the start of the week and feel that you are not good enough. How good do you have to be? Who determines how good you are? If you have decided to improve yourself in a discipline, then you should just do it for yourself - for your own sense of well-being so that you like to look in the mirror. The demands seem to always come from the outside, but they are just a mirror of your own aspirations! If you have recognized this, you can get out of the rat race that you have been trapped in.
Partnership / Love:
You should give some thought for once to the way in which you benefit from your partner. Does he/she perhaps benefit from your patience or indulgence? Or does he/she possibly benefit from your weaknesses? Every relationship has its entirely personal basis. Time can help you to comprehend this basis and re-evaluate your own contribution to the partnership