Pat said: " I just wanted them to get to know me as a person before they found out my age. I have dated men my own age. But I find them boring. Philip keeps me young at heart." Philip said:"I'm a quite guy. Girls my age expect men to be witty and talk all the time. Pat just wanted to get to know me. I thought that she was about 20. So it was a bit of a shock when she told me she was almost as old as my mother. I couldn't help but laugh." Pat said:" I was nervous in love, with weak knees, a pounding heart and all that. I knew he was the one.