Still, you can use basic gestures most of the time, then when you see a strange reaction from your listener, you can make sure to emphasize your real meaning by using words and a different hand movement. When speaking English, it's generally good to smile at your listener from time to time, especially when he or she has made an interesting comment. Speak English with Body Language When we speak, we use much more than just words. Using our hands, we can emphasize our main points, remind our listener how many main points we have, and let our listener know when we are changing topics. If you are speaking to someone while standing, it is important to stand neither too close nor too far from the speaker. People from some southern European countries, such as France or Spain, often stand closer together when speaking than do Chinese people. A strong voice can communicate confidence while a quiet voice communicates intimacy or some secret message. As long as your hands move from time to time, the listener will not think that you are unfriendly. Non-verbal communication not only includes how we move our body, but also hand gestures, facial expressions including eye contact, and how we use our voice. A loud, high pitched voice (similar to a girl screaming) can communicate nervousness or excitement, while a deep voice might mean we are tired or not enthusiastic.