Som, I am very sad and angry with you. I told you that I had VISA company make appointment for me at American Embassy in Bangkok, 8 AM , 29th September. This was done over two days ago. I told you many many times 8 AM I have, I have. Why do you not believe in me and trust in me? A good wife believes in her husband all the time with all her heart. This is very very sad. I paid a lot of money and went through a lot of trouble to get the appointment. We know our Government. We know what time we have to be there. I told you in great detail many times step by step what we have to do on Monday 29 September. I told you by my voice and by Email. Why do you not understand? I'm afraid this will hurt our future a lot. You need to slow down. We are doing everything as fast as we can. If you want to come to America so fast, better you find someone else to be with. Because I only want good wife for me and my children. You listen to your father, why do you not listen to your husband? Now tomorrow morning I will have to call company and fix everything again. Promise me you will not try to do any more appointments. I asked you only to make appointment at Thai Government buildings only for Thai Government and only after 10 AM. I hope this Email is very clear and you can understand everything. I worry that maybe you do not believe in me enough to be my wife. I need a good wife. Who loves God first and Husband and family second.Are you sure you want to be my wife? I hope and pray to God you only want to come to America to be with me, to be your husband and not just to come to America. I am sad to say these words to you but I have to be sure now. Now when I come to be with you I will bring married papers. We call prenuptial agreement. This is before husband and wife marry it's a legal document that has to be signed by an attorney. It is for when husband and wife have trouble in marriage and get divorced. The husband keeps the home and property he owned before he married. And the wife gets what she had before they married too. Usually,the wife will receive some kind of money or settlement that would be agreed on. I'm sorry but I see now we have many misunderstandings. I promise I will find someone to explain everything to you in Thailand. But for now on you cannot change any of my documents again. I work so hard to get this appointment and now I'm so sad that I have to fix everything you messed up. I love you very much Som but you make me very afraid. You have to decide in your heart do you want to be married to me or stay in Thailand and do what you like for your future. You choose. Email me back very soon for I know your heart and your answer. Tim.