This morning, while my boyfriend smoking. It smelly and made me coughing. After finished my bathing, I said to him " When you will stop smoking ? You never try to stop it, after I stop talking about it you smoke more. Would you stop smoke or stop our relationship ? I am seriously now. " Even though I am still stand my words, but I don't force him much. I know it's not easy, but it's good for his health, and also my health.
My father died in a middle of his life from tobacco and he had work about Industry of machinery production. Both reason had made his health worse and died finally. This fact of life made me stop my study at High School and work since age 19 years. I am sure that every people knew, how is work without diploma. You can not choose job, but you must do every job that can make money even it's worse job and you don't like it.
Don't ask me why I don't have kids, there is many reasons and my life never good enough for my children.