poetry is not philosophy or psychology... it's not based on facts... it's freaking has to be surreal, i freaking have science and sociology and whatever to tell me facts...
it should say (mean)... what do you feel "deep" in your heart, in a "stylized" AND "obscure" manner.
it should only give a hint. maybe two or three or four or five! or freaking six! but that's freaking all.
imagine a poet who is writing a poem for someone... should he/she say how much money she/he has, what he/she can provide and whatsoever? go to some bank better. deeper stuff there.
no, it's neither about what you have or what you are... but about what you feel, deep in your heart, how much you love her/him... you should impress that person and it's not really easy...
because you need a freaking