6. Don’t force your partner to be your everything.
We don’t live in a society where our whole support system lives on one block anymore. I think that’s part of the reason we’ve come to expect our spouse to fulfill all of these roles—best friend, activity partner, co-parent, financial equal. But it’s not fair to them. We need to learn to use our village more, and let our spouse be our spouse. They can fulfill some of those roles, maybe even all of those roles some of the time, but not all the time.
6. Don’t force your partner to be your everything.We don’t live in a society where our whole support system lives on one block anymore. I think that’s part of the reason we’ve come to expect our spouse to fulfill all of these roles—best friend, activity partner, co-parent, financial equal. But it’s not fair to them. We need to learn to use our village more, and let our spouse be our spouse. They can fulfill some of those roles, maybe even all of those roles some of the time, but not all the time.
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