If you think this issue is too much to bare....than speak now, best you do it now .....it's good I find out things I don't like about you now and you as well so we know who we are dealing with . I have to admit, I expected different from you in my situation and I got the opposite , and I learned things I which were done differently on your part , but I am here still , I have not lost many things here, I can still live here we can't work this out, but one thing I've never done to you that you have done to me is do something negative to you just to prove a point to you. I don't argue ....but this is where I don't compromise , I am in need and if you can't support me and back me up, you don't need to be with me.