MONEY MATTERS
Money can't buy happiness. Money can't buy us love. Rich people supposedly aren't that much happier than the poor. Wealth can never replace relationships, family ties, the good feeling from helping others, etc. We've all heard this before time and again, but let's be realistic. Though money may not be everything, in Asia it really does have an effect on one's happiness.
First of all, money brings respect and approval from others. People might say that we should not be so concerned about what others think of us and that happiness can only come from within. Yet that's far easier said than done. Realistically, very few people can live contentedly without the approval of others. For most, it does and will always bother us when we are looked down on because we drive an old car or live in a small, cheap apartment. True, the initial thrill of buying a new car might fade away, but the car itself is a symbol of achievement that others will respect and this effect is not so temporary. It isn't easy for us to accept being middle class or poor when we see richer people get immediate respect and esteem just because they are financially successful. We can't help but want it as well
Secondly, money allows us to live in an environment which can promote happiness. How happy can you be living in a dangerous and dirty environment in which poor people usually have to live? If you have money, you can live in a neighborhood that is safe, clean, and beautiful. You'll have good schools and parks nearby for your children, and often excellent access to necessary facilities like hospitals. How can these things not affect your happiness?