Encouraging statements:
4 ‘I understand how you feel. I’m sure you’ll handle it like you did
before.’
4 ‘It’s a good feeling when you reach one of your goals – good for you.’
Specific praise:
4 ‘You did a good job of avoiding trouble with Tim this week.’
4 ‘I like the way you are willing to try new things.’
Encouraging young people to talk:
4 ‘You look a bit sad today. Would you like to talk about it?’
4 ‘Wow – that sounds scary. What did you do?’