there has been an increase in parental coddling and the so-called
“self-esteem” movement. Parents and teachers trying to instill a healthy sense of selfesteem
in children by praising them lavishly often do more harm than good. In fact,
studies show that children offered compliments for a skill they have not mastered or
talents that they do not have are left feeling emptier and more insecure. Only when
children are praised for real accomplishments are they able to build actual selfesteem.
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