Don use the second mantra until you have practiced the
first and produced your presence.Then when you are
truly there in here and the now you are in a position
to recognize the presence of the other person. The second
mantra is: I know you are there and I am vary happy.
You are letting your loved one know that his or her presence is important to your happiness.
The second mantra acknowledges that you really see
the other person. This is crucial because when a person