I live in Thailand. I have spend many years traveling around Asia and have developed a keen understanding of Asian cultures and people. There are many reasons why people reach out online to others, some of those reasons are based on personal gain, others based on a sincere desire to communicate and share. In my life I have learned certain things; never to judge others or assume I know who they really are, far better to allow time and experience to guide us. I have also learned to be patient and kind; for without those qualities nothing will grow or bloom. I hope to meet a nice person to share things with; I know this; those who are spiritually of the same essence will know each other without words... no amount of makeup or money ... no fancy car or slick talk can replace sincere words and right actions. Love is either a fools game or a souls salvation; it all depends on the attitude and behavior of each person. We cannot get more then we are willing to give; so I think each person needs to look inside himself to see just what he or she is really willing to offer before they consider how much they are going to get....