about marriage: I really impressed about your ideas how your life should go...myself I was setting out to have agirlfriend first...if this is working for several years ( and it will be difficult if it will be a thai women because so much differences ) and if it is working honest I dont mind to marry some years later.....about having child: till now I never had agirlfriend who I could trust to bring up a child...so I also never cherished the idea to want a child in the first place...but if in the course of the relationship with my girlfriend I would learn that she is truly a strong women to bring up a child I would not mind to become a father.......but to learn and see this about all this a long term relationship is neddet...and a relationship that is free of family inteventions and other problems...the women should be free in her decisions only follow her own heart and she must truly love me.....a play love a play girlfriend for monetar reasons (as I experienced it ) is bound to fail and it did...also it is not helpful if my future women is focused on her family too much because any problem she will not want to discuss with me rather with her own mother brother father etc.....so failure will be sure.....as I said the women needs to be free to her own heart and accept me as her partner...and sure in a relationship all the physical aspects must be present not because of socila conventions because of real desire and attracttion ( both physical and mental ) must be there...sure a high level of passin must be present as well ......these are just some criteria that must be met a first step to have a marriage a real family ...like the foundation of a house.....this has nothing to do with customs or culture this is for me very individual grown out of my very own experience.....so if you look at yourself and on what you have told me I think your ideas are a mind fancy an idealised way how things should work out and go.....and I honestly never ever met anyone in this life that started out in a relationship like this....for myself I would like to meet you face to face all without your family near bye...I would need to feel how your energie your body languagge would be if we are together....also about sx..because in the near intensive the mind opens and can be observed what the body really wants.....but as you have no intentions for anything I have in mind it is far better to remain skype friends...I really enjoy yourmails and our discussions....so I wish you sucess in the attempt to meet the right husband.....be happy (wave)