No. It is different. When the other people hurt you, they just do it. They don't care anything. You get hurt. You get pain. And they don't fucking care anything of what they did ( sorry for the not polite word ). Their brain is probably too small for understanding how bad is what they did. And there is no pay back. You got hurt and that's it. I got hurt many times. Do you think anybody cared? Nobody. When somebody hurts you, you have 3 choices: 1 is you stay in your pain, 2 is you just forget and go on ( but it will hurt, or you must be just a piece of ice and feel nothing ), 3 is you take them down ( you hurt them as much as they did to you ).