Relational emotional immaturity is associated with entanglements, transferences, and unsatisfying shallow relationships. When we are aware of and in command of our own emotions we will develop the capacity to enter into appropriate level of relationships with other persons and the environment. Otherwise, we can succumb to envy, mistrust, suspicion, possessiveness, and so on. We will tend to blame others or the environment for our mistakes or failures rather than feeling responsible.
It is not uncommon to find that a candidate is overly attached to one or the other formator or a companion. Often this happens as a result of the young person's efforts to compensate for the relational losses they have suffered in earlier stages of development. As he or she grows in emotional maturity they will be able to rely on their inner resources and feel comfortable for who they are instead of shoring up their deflated selves through clinging behaviours.