Before envying such people, remember that they are not living their lives to the fullest. Actually, they are living in a cloud of denial, not exploring great things about themselves and not contributing great things to the world. Coauthor Ana refers to this state, in her classes, as"living in the fog." Many of us go about our whole live inside this fog of unclarity, half thought decisions,misunderstanding, and overall confusion about how life really is.