I live together so today I just wanted to get a little more serious and talk about my. And I think it's a good idea to live together before marriage I feel like there's a really large divide between my generation and generations before me on the subject my generation is a little bit more than values and open-minded and it seems to me you like older Generations are more set in their ways and don't take any of this as offense I'm not trying to say it's a bad thing there's a lot of things that I agree with with the older generations and not my generation so I'm not beating you down I'm just saying
So the biggest I know there's a lot of people who are like my grandparents who don't really agree with the living together before marriage thing but I know so many of my friends who already are living together and they're all in there really early twenties now the parents didn't totally raise need to know the difference between wrong and right but they also raised me to be my own person and have my own opinions and make my own path in life so funny I feel like living with your partner before marriage is an essential learning experience I have seen so many marriages fall apart within the first year and most of them is simply because they didn't actually know what they were getting into they knew each other in high school but that's not really deep enough I know that back in the fifties and other times it was really taboo to get divorced and split up or Subway or anything like that so you were pretty much stuck but now people can just do whatever they want I have to say that for me the idea of marrying and living with someone that I don't fully know it kind of terrifying and no wonder people get divorced from it I feel like you can't really know a person on the deepest level if you're not around them when you're both at your most comfortable that's when your true self and get to know your partner on a whole new level because you know how clean they are how they manage their money how they take care of pets if they have them with the flex having future children what they do in their free time and how they generally keep their little space a little comfortable bubble that they live in I don't know about you but I wouldn't want to live with someone who didn't want to live in a clean place like I do or someone who hated my animals and don't want to take care of them with me so for me I feel like living with someone before marriage is a very important and I opening experience to pick up on the littlest details and their habits and ultimately that's what you're going to have to be okay with for the rest of your life so you have to be sure that you can live with that forever and why not be starting before you make the big job this was just something that came up in my life recently as I do it so I kind of wanted to see your thoughts on the subject so if you could talk to me in the comments below tell me what has influenced you were thinking of what ever made you think on this subject and anything you want to talk about just a nice videos nice if you know me you know that I don't like offending anybody and I would never say something just to make someone that is nice, please tell him thank you for chatting with me and just listening to what I have to say I really appreciate being able to talk with you guys until next week I will see you later bye