However I have been thinking that it is not fair to anyone to chat with me, as I live in the UK.. Due to my job I could never leave and well I don't want anyone giving up stuff for me... I could live with myself if someone missed out on so much... I think only a selfish man could ask someone to move ... So I can't have a relationship with you or anyone else from TF I have deleted my account and well.... I don't have all the answers ... But thank you