In this world, everyone dreams to live peacefully, smell the fresh fragrance of roses, be able to walk on this earth with contentment. If the marriages work in a beautiful way with love and mercy for one another, if a spouse could understand another - this world would be such a happy place.
Islam truly beautifies the relationship between husband and wife. Allah Swt has put love and mercy between the spouses. Allah Swt has given both men and women rights over each other. However many people don't give the rights to their spouses. Many times we find Muslim women in our community facing abuse from their husbands. These women are treated harshly and looked down upon. One of the reason this happens is because some men are grown up in such atmosphere, they have seen it traditionally. That's why we have to overcome these traditions with our beautiful deen and make them realize it's a sin which they are answerable to Allah Swt.
I believe that Muslim women have great strength and a lot of patience. I have lots of respect for them. I can't imagine myself going through what they go through every day of their lives. Sometimes they will just cry alone and get back up as if nothing happened. May Allah Subhana wa Ta'ala reward them and grant them a beautiful house in Paradise Ameen!
I think Muslim women should give Dawah to their husband in such circumstances. Who knows maybe their husbands are unaware that they are committing a sin because of their bad behavior. This will also affect their children. I believe husband and wife should both remind each other of Allah. They should be able to complete each other.