Upon arrival at bride’s home, the parade or “Hae” will stop in front of the bride’s home and the
groom will not be allowed to enter the bride’s home. The bride’s relatives traditionally bar the path 2
or 4 times. Two barriers represent golden gates while the other two represent the silver gates. Two
barriers may be generally accepted. Golden necklace or silver belts are used to bar the path. The
groom is traditionally greeted, questioned, and pay some amount of money before he is allowed to
pass each barrier so that he can meet the bride and conduct her from room for wedding ceremony.
Inside the bride’s home, it is an acceptance ceremony for the wedding settlement. The bride is
traditionally supposed to pay the persons who carry the primary and secondary settlement.