On the other side, we also come across candidates who are emotionally cold, who suppress their emotions. Because they do not express their feelings, it is difficult for them to get close to any one or experience intimacy with others. Helping such candidates to get in touch with their emotions and learn to express them in appropriate ways is an important but neglected task in formation.
INAPPROPRIATE RELATIONSHIP TO PERSONS AND ENVIRONMENT
Emotional maturity is a requirement for initiating and maintaining healthy relationships in families and communities. It is a prerequisite for long term happiness. According to Lazarus (1991) social adaptation encounter is the proper context for emotion. Emotions cannot be adequately defined without reference to how we define and evaluate our relationships. They come in to play through our interaction and struggles with the physical and especially the social environment and how we mange these transactions.