01:06:29:18 01:06:33:18 ...by people, physically, at times.
01:06:33:18 01:06:37:10 How and when can we do that?
Not how, just when?
01:06:37:12 01:06:39:00 Yeah, l know, l know.
01:06:39:08 01:06:44:05 People in recovery want to know
when's a good time to start dating.
01:06:45:00 01:06:49:10 And my rule of thumb is, when you
get home, get yourself a plant.
01:06:49:12 01:06:52:02 l like spider plants,
but whatever turns you on.
01:06:52:15 01:06:56:00 Then, in about a year, get a pet.
And then, if, in say...
01:06:56:02 01:07:01:02 ...two years, the plant
and the pet are still alive...
01:07:01:08 01:07:04:12 ...then you can start to think about
having a relationship.
01:07:04:15 01:07:06:02 Thanks.
01:07:07:08 01:07:09:08 l'll be fine. l know what to do.
01:07:09:12 01:07:13:22 Don't drink, go to meetings,
find a sponsor, ask for help.
01:07:14:15 01:07:18:20 Don't drink, go to meetings,
find a sponsor, ask for help.
01:07:18:20 01:07:21:12 Happy traiIs to you
01:07:21:15 01:07:24:18 Keep smiIing untiI then
01:07:24:18 01:07:26:18 Who cares about the cIouds
01:07:26:22 01:07:28:15 If we're together
01:07:28:18 01:07:32:05 Just sing a song
And bring the sunny....
01:07:33:05 01:07:34:20 Well, l hope he makes it.
01:07:34:22 01:07:37:15 Statistically,
only three out of 1 0 of us will.
01:07:37:18 01:07:39:08 So in a way...
01:07:39:10 01:07:43:08 ...it's good for us if he goes back
to using. You know?
01:07:43:18 01:07:45:05 Odds-wise.
01:07:52:18 01:07:55:10 God, l love afternoons like this.
01:07:56:15 01:07:58:10 Do you know what's missing?
01:07:58:18 01:08:02:18 That l don't have a dry vodka martini
with two olives in a chilled glass.
01:08:03:02 01:08:04:18 God, l miss that.
01:08:04:20 01:08:07:08 Lately l've been
lying awake at night...
01:08:07:10 01:08:11:00 ...thinking of the dumb-ass things
l've done when l was messed up.
01:08:11:02 01:08:15:10 One night last year, at dinner,
l threw up all over my glazed ham.
01:08:15:12 01:08:17:20 Then l thought,
''Well, maybe nobody noticed.''
01:08:17:22 01:08:20:15 l don't think of it as a garnish.
01:08:20:15 01:08:21:15 l'm a winner.
01:08:22:20 01:08:23:18 Oh, God.
01:08:23:22 01:08:26:02 You know what the worst one was?
For me?
01:08:26:22 01:08:29:02 My best friend in the whole world.
01:08:29:18 01:08:33:10 We grew up playing ball,
hunting and fishing.
01:08:33:18 01:08:37:15 One Sunday morning, he walks in
on me and his wife in bed.
01:08:39:08 01:08:41:08 You never live that one down.
01:08:43:18 01:08:44:18 Tell me one of yours.
01:08:46:08 01:08:47:08 Excuse me?
01:08:47:12 01:08:50:05 What's the worst thing you did
when you were messed up?
01:08:50:22 01:08:52:12 l don't know.
01:08:53:10 01:08:56:05 Come on. Give me a couple.
l'll pick one.
01:08:56:08 01:08:58:05 l don't really remember any.
01:08:58:08 01:09:00:10 l just told you some stuff that's....
01:09:00:12 01:09:03:12 l'm a drunk.
Drunks forget everything. You know?
01:09:03:15 01:09:04:18 Come on.
01:09:04:22 01:09:09:08 Why? So l can recount the last 1 5
disgusting years to humiliate myself?
01:09:09:08 01:09:10:20 -No, thanks.
-Why not?
01:09:10:22 01:09:13:20 Because l don't feel like
talking about it.
01:09:13:22 01:09:15:00 You too good for me?
01:09:15:02 01:09:17:15 Are you dense?
Did your mom drop you on your head?
01:09:17:18 01:09:20:22 l said no. l don't want to
talk about it. Just drop it.
01:09:36:05 01:09:38:10 God, it's so hard.
01:09:38:20 01:09:42:02 You're a doctor.
That's the way it's supposed to be.
01:09:42:05 01:09:45:02 We carry our own bags here.
This isn't the Sheraton.
01:09:45:02 01:09:48:02 Your chores are posted.
We will take the stairs.
01:09:48:05 01:09:52:10 What? l paid you a shitload of money.
l am not doing any chores.
01:09:53:08 01:09:54:15 -Pills.
-Booze.
01:09:54:18 01:09:55:15 Coke and sex.
01:09:58:20 01:10:00:22 It's your daughter, Darian, Deirdre.
01:10:01:02 01:10:05:02 Don't worry about Darian.
I tucked her into bed hours ago.
01:10:05:22 01:10:07:20 So did I.
01:10:09:00 01:10:10:00 No.
01:10:17:00 01:10:18:18 Oh, God!
01:10:19:00 01:10:21:08 lt was an unbelievable episode.
l wish you'd seen it.
01:10:21:12 01:10:23:18 Everyone was losing their minds.
01:10:25:05 01:10:26:08 What are you doing?
01:10:26:12 01:10:27:20 Packing.
01:10:28:20 01:10:30:10 What does it look like?
01:10:30:15 01:10:33:08 -You're not leaving for a couple days.
-So?
01:10:33:10 01:10:36:05 l am leaving.
Might as well get ready.
01:10:36:05 01:10:38:22 There's no point in
making this room all homey...
01:10:39:00 01:10:41:00 ...for only, like, 42 more hours.
01:10:41:12 01:10:44:20 There's 20 minutes left till curfew.
Let's get ice cream.
01:10:45:00 01:10:47:12 -Satisfy your sugar cravings.
-No, thanks.
01:10:54:00 01:10:55:20 You don't have to do this.
01:10:55:22 01:10:56:22 Do what?
01:11:01:02 01:11:03:20 How do you know what l have to do?
Have you ever left rehab?
01:11:03:22 01:11:04:22 No, but l--
01:11:05:00 01:11:08:10 You've never left rehab, so you
don't know what you're talking about.
01:11:08:15 01:11:12:00 True, but l have been a part
of some very emotional sing-outs--
01:11:12:00 01:11:14:18 l'm sorry. That's right.
You sang ''Lean On Me'' a few times.
01:11:14:20 01:11:16:20 The stupidest cheesy song ever.
01:11:16:22 01:11:19:18 You must know about leaving rehab
better than anyone.
01:11:36:02 01:11:39:08 l got an eyelash. Make a wish.
01:11:39:08 01:11:41:08 Custody of my kids.
01:11:42:22 01:11:43:22 Sobriety.
01:11:44:05 01:11:46:15 Come on, baby. We all want that.