The following is a checklist to help you determine when it's time to move on. Just ONE "warning sign" is enough reason to break up. You should not put up with an abusive partner There is never an acceptable excuse for a partner to hurt you with words or actions. You do not have to tolerate any verbal or physical abuse. You should not accept common excuses like "l just had a bad day at work!". "L'm under a lot of stress m really sorry. I promise l will not do it again! You should think carefully before giving a person a second chance. Your partner should respect your opinions, decisions, morals, and values. He. or she should support you and encourage you to reach your goals and dreams. your partner has a problem with alcohol or drugs, you had better not believe that you'l be able to change his or her ways. You ought to have time for yourself. your family and your friends. Your partner should not be possessive and take up all your time and energy. you can not trust your partner if you think that he / she lies or cheats, or if he / she makes you feel unsafe,. then youd better listen to your instincts. f you no longer enjoy time together, you do not respect each other, or if you can not be honest with each other then it's better to be on your own than in a bad relationship.