Divorce can be caused from many reasons and factors before marriage. Firstly, living together before marriage can lead to divorce. Some couples may be familiar with staying together without marriage because it is more flexible and comfortable than being married which is different from living before marriage; they have to think in long-term about the children plan, financial management, or even relationship maintaining. When they live without marriage, most may concern the present time as the main priority. When they marry and find that the relationship after marriage is not the same as in the past, divorce may be the option mostly decided to break the relationship.
Secondly, continually internal problems among lovers, which are happened before marriage, can be a driver to divorce. Before marriage decision, some couples may face the problems, including being unfaithful and envious to his/her lover. When any misunderstandings happen to them, most decide not to make them understandable with each other so that they are themselves transferred to the marriage life that lovers have to solve those problems together. When the problems are not solved, they can affect to divorce in some couples since they do not use compromising as the main strategy to clear up any obstacles. However, some couples decide to cooperatively solve the problem before marriage so that they can strengthen the relationship when living together after marriage.
Lastly, external factor, including the admission refusal of the couples’ parents or friends, can lead to divorce. Before marriage, parents may not agree that the couples marry in the specified period due to any reasons. Some couples disagree with theirs and it will bring about to the future problem since parents try to defame their daughter-in-law or son-in-law to break the non-acceptable relationship. Furthermore, friends can be influential to make a couple get divorce seeing that they may initially disapprove the relationship of this couple with any reasons. When the truth is opened, it is the decision of a bride/groom whether he/she wants to choose love or friend relationship.
For conclusion, internal factors, including living together before marriage and internal relationship among couples, and external factors from parents and friends that both happen before marriage can lead to divorce.