In group they learn that other in their situation would feel angry: they learn to read their own body language (‘’ My fists are clenched so I must be angry’’) they to magnify rather than suppress the first flickerings of anger; they learn that it is safe, safe, permissible, and in their best interests to be direct and to feel and express anger . Most important, their fear of such behavior is extinguished: their fantasized catastrophe does not occur, comments do not result in destruction, quilt rejection, or escalation of anger.