Hi Yuu....
I am sure that many many men are contacting you as you look very nice and sweet.
I know it's not easy to judge who is honest and who is not. Who is nice and who is not. This is the Internet and anyone can say whatever they want.
If you want to get to know someone besides that basic; 'what is your job?'
You might want to ask them many questions such as;
1. If you could build a house anywhere in the world, where would that be?
2. What is the most important thing (not food) in your kitchen?
3. Who are you most proud of?
4. If you had a dog, what kind would it be?
5. Who is the most important person (or people) in your life?
6. What was the most angry you've ever been?
7. Who have you hurt the most (feelings)?
8. Who in life do you miss the most?
9, What time do you get up on your day off?
10. How long can you stand in a line at the bank or store and be patient?
11. Which movie made you laugh the most?
12. Which movie made you cry the most?
13. What was the most embarrassing thing you've ever done?
14. Do you hate anyone?
15. What is the most sexy thing you find in a women?
16. Do you shower before bed at night?
17. Last book you read?
18. Favorite song that you will sing out loud in your car?
19. What are you most scared of?
20. What type of people do you like most?
21. What type of people do you dislike most?
22. Have you ever made a women cry?
23. What is your favorite memory as a child?
Yuu...I can go on and on. But if you ask a guy these questions and not allow him to study them...just ask and he has to reply...you will get a better understanding of his character.
And besides that...it's fun and interesting.
All the very best to you!
David