10. Take Care of Yourself
If you take the time to meet your own needs, when your help is needed most, you will best be able to provide it. Remember that you cannot save your loved one with borderline disorder on your own.
If you are the parent, there is a natural tendency to focus much of your attention on the person with borderline disorder. However, make certain that you are not neglecting your other sons and daughters who may appear to be doing well. They have need of your time and attention too, even as they grow into adulthood. You will learn from educational experiences the extent of this potential problem and how best to deal with it.