I believe that I am a genuine and gentle person. I am an optimist. What is realistic is so much pre-conditioned in us from young, from media, parents and the government. The greatest minds have learnt to dispel so many ideas of reality. Look at the great modernist painters, the scientists and inventors who did not accept that diseases could not be cured and found cures, even individuals you changed the world, like Gandhi, who was told he could never win against the British and not only won but defeated an empire! I hope you will realise that being an optimist and not attaining your goal is not a disappointment; because we aim so high that falling a little short is still a success for us – ‘I shot for the heavens and only reached the stars’! If what I already hope for us is only 10% achieved then we will have the most wonderful lives!!! I have so many dreams, aspirations and ambitions. I want to accomplish so much in life, but not alone, because it would not mean anything. I like to push myself and experiment. I feel that I have never ever been able to tell my partner ‘everything’. But I know you want to know about the personal me. I am also a hopeless romantic that has been looking for the right person all of my life. I have had lovers who were not friends and have been married, but don’t worry that was many years ago and I am divorced. I feel that I have never found the right girl to take on my journey. I want a person to be able to give 100% and for them to give me 100%. Do you understand being ‘one’ with someone? I want this and I need to find this in the woman that I will spend the rest of my life with. I want to be at times her husband but other times her lover. I want to take care of her and make her feel secure, wanted and loved for the rest of her life. I want nothing to be wrong or impossible and to make her feel like she has never been loved before. Please let’s always agree to only tell the truth, what is the point in lying? I promise you this.