In the same way occasions will reflect the formal aspects of the proceedings rather than the individual feelings of the participants, and on some occasions the movement of a gift in the appropriate wrapping will be a sufficient expression of the words which could be spoken but which may not be necessary. The gift itself will carry, symbolically, the meaning to be expressed, made quite clear and precise in the wrapping used. After a wedding, for example, the guests will take home gifts prepared in advance. These gifts invariably include foodstuffs, possibly cakes, but almost always decorated in a way which symbolizes the occasion. The guests are thus able further to share the celebration with members of their own households who may not have been able to attend