Hi.... sorry just could not sleep.. was a bit concerned of what you told me today... you said you want me as a brother and a friend.. .. yes I do care and love you as a brother... but as a friend I have loving caring and heartfelt feelings towards you.... so Pam before we pursue this any further you need to tell me now ... what you want.. so that none of our feelings are hurt when I see you..... whatever decision you make I will respect it.