Living well is a challenge. Mr. Brian Palmer a successful businessman lives in New York and works as a top-level maneger in a large corporation he is proud of his rapid rise in the corporation however he is even prouder of the change he has made recently in his ideas about success My vaiue system he says he changed a little bit as the result of a divorce Now I think differently about what is important in life two years ago with the some work load I have right now I world stay in the office and work until midnight come home go to bed and get up at six and work again until midnight now my family is more important to me than work work and the work will just have to wait a new marriage and a house full of children have become the center of brain s life but such new values were realized only after the pain of the first divorce.